Step 1 – Make Him Notice Your Lips
He will notice your lips in a couple ways:
- Touch them at moments that seem logical, like when you are thinking about something.
- Pout when you want something or are upset.
- Lick them after taking a sip of a drink.
- Lick them just because you can!
- Wear lipstick that draws his attention towards you lips.
All of these will get his attention towards your lips and start the process of him imagining kissing them.
Step 2 – Make Him Comfortable in Your Space
Part of the fear that holds him backing for kissing you is the fear he will be in your space, which is not a place that he goes often if you haven’t kissed yet.
You can rectify this fear by leaning in and touching him once in a while or hugging him when he leaves you. Let him know that you welcome him in your space, and he will feel more courageous to REALLY get in it with a kiss.
Step 3 – Let Him Know You Like Him
If he thinks you really, really like him, then you will increase your chances that he will lean in and try to give you a kiss. Fear of rejection is the number one reason that guys will not kiss you. Making him think that rejection is very unlikely is one of the best answers to the thought “How to make a guy WANT to kiss you.”
If he ever tries to touch you, make sure you lean in to his touch and let him know it is welcome to you. He will start to realize that if his touch is welcome, then so is his kiss.
Step 4 – Give Him Opportunities!
Have you done everything else but you are still wondering “How do I get him to kiss me?” then this is the step for you! If he has been thinking about kissing you, is comfortable with you, and knows you like him, then all you have to do is give him tons of opportunities to kiss you.
Don’t shy away from facing him – close enough that if he wanted to he could kiss you. Also, after you give him a hug, lean back and look at him – this will be the number one time that most guys will go for it.
Use the above 4 steps and it’s very unlikely that he won’t give you a kiss. But if he doesn’t then you may need to take the plunge and stop wondering how do I get him to kiss me, and instead worry about how you are going to kiss him!
How Do You Know if a Guy Wants To Kiss You?
It will be obvious. Some signs that a guy wants to kiss you are:
- He will look at your lips.
- He will be awkward when greeting you or saying good-bye to you (thinking about whether he should kiss you or not)
- He will lick his own lips (acting out his thoughts about kissing you)
How Do I Get Him To Kiss Me When He Seems To Scared To Do It?
You may not want to have to kiss him first, but if a guy shows no intention of kissing you, or seems to scared to do it, then you could end up spending a long, long time waiting for a kiss from him. And if you let the moment pass for too long then it could become awkward and possibly never happen. Better you have to do it then it never happens at all!
So go out there and get him to kiss you! And if you have to do what it takes – then do it!
If you have any comments, tactics, or insights into getting a guy to kiss you, then leave them in the comments below!